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If one feels the need to offer, when you trace it back to its roots, it’s normally that the woman isn’t sure about her attraction to him. If we give sex immediately, we may not feel comfortable.
Women who apply specific rules, such as in “3 dates” or “3 months” are at a loss. But only when we apply all that we know, and are courageous enough to trust ourselves to go outside the box and live authentically.
The time we take, should be long enough for us to feel a solid connection. We can afford to be bold, to try new things, and know we will be intact at the end of any new journey.
I prefer to create a sense of solid footing, establishing a platform of being “seen” and “understood.” This is true regardless of what I envision our involvement to become. Being older allows us to have seen patterns of behavior, and assess if the man in question is worth our time.
Roles of defined behavior cannot work in a consciously emerging world.
Social changes, including female empowerment and open sexuality, call for new ways of being— therefore each woman needs to create a new design of their our making, in alignment with their specific desires and goals.
If we apply rules of romance from former time periods, we ask modern day individuals to squeeze themselves into a smaller version of who they are.
That’s why self awareness is key to all outer behaviors in dating.
The more we know ourselves, the more we can take responsibility to creatively enter partnership in a way that works for us.
All attending anxiety is due to conforming to the out-dated standards by which we seek to apply a cardboard cut-out version of love. (And they don’t necessarily get us what we want.) When we release the need to superimpose a specific code of behavior on the man, as well as ourselves, we are free to act naturally in accordance with our true disposition. In that case, I recommend to do so in a way that doesn’t appear to be a date. I counsel women to propose “inclusion.” By that I mean; A woman is already doing something with a group and invites the man to join her.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating