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At the very instant that I saw him I became emotionally and physically attracted to him. One week after he called my office (he knew where I work) and asked why I had left and never returned.

I tried not to let him observe this and I was so embarrassed. I told him why; I didn’t lie, he was very cool and quiet about that.

We then exchanged cell numbers and added each other on Facebook.

We chat with each other practically every day and I continue to tell him how I feel about him and he is expressing the same feelings, only that he doesn’t want to cause or be the cause of a broken marriage.

The furthest we have gotten though is expressing our feelings to each other.

The problem that I have is getting him off my head.

Every time I close my eyes I see him; sometimes I even imagine him when I am having sex with my husband.

I mentioned this to him; he wants a secret relationship, but the way I feel about him my relationship with him will not be a secret.

I sometimes tell myself that I do not want to be friends with him anymore, so I deleted his number from my phone, but it’s like not talking to him is killing me silently so I started calling him again and the feelings I have for him is even greater than before. There is an age-old proverb which says, “You cannot serve two masters” and I think it can be paraphrased to “You cannot love two lovers.” When you decided to get married it is a decision that was based on the fact that you would agree to love only one man for the rest of your life.

I love my family and would not want my marriage to break. You said you love your husband and your family, then forget about this other guy and be with them.

You should call this guy and tell him that although you have some feeling towards him, you are a married woman and you intend to stick to your marriage vows. Write to Dear Bella at [email protected] Dear Bella is published Tuesdays and Thursdays.

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